Procrastination is intentional...Are we choosing to delay? Then we might be procrastinating. | Not on purpose? Then it's not procrastination.If the delay isn't our choice, then it's an issue of patience, not procrastination. | ||
...and harmfulWhen we choose to do low-priority things instead of high-priority things, our life will be worse than it could have been.Rare New Form of Procrastination Identified (joke title: this is a common form of procrastination) – "a delay of the day’s most important activities because your attention shifts to less important, but perhaps seemingly more urgent, tasks. You are trading your to-do list for emergencies." If a delay is both
| Not harmful? Then it's not procrastination.If we delay low-priority things so that we can do high-priority tasks, then we're not procrastinating – we're prioritizing. The ability to say “No” is good for productivity!No, Thursday's out. How about never – is never good for you? In addition, it is sometimes wise to delay a high-priority task. For example, we should give ourselves time to research and talk about an important life decision. This isn't procrastination: this is patience. | ||
When we procrastinate we do: | When we don't procrastinate, we do: | ||
Urgent tasksBy waiting until things turn into emergencies, we spend our time "putting out fires." | Not-yet-urgent tasksBy doing things before they turn into emergencies, we control our own time. | ||
Unimportant tasksProcrastinators don't spend all their time putting out fires – they also spend a lot of time trying to repair their mood. | Important tasksInstead of trying to repair their mood, non-procrastinators choose things that will make the future better. | ||
Low-quality leisure timeWe do things that make us feel better immediately but make us feel worse later. | Quality leisure timeWe enjoy ourselves in ways that make our whole lives better. | ||
Ignoring relationshipsIt hurts our relationships when we keep our friends waiting.Second-hand Procrastination: How Your Procrastination May Harm Others – “In the name of "working better under pressure," too often social engagements are canceled, promises are broken, and favors called in to have others problem solve last-minute catastrophes (a jammed printer becomes a national emergency). ... Procrastination harms relationships at home and at work.” | Building relationshipsOur relationships are a priority. | ||
Ignoring the big pictureWe regret all the things in life that we meant to do. | Building our lifeWe decide what matters most in our life... and make it happen, bit by bit. |